This page will be edited and made a little more user friendly by 1100 12 march 2025
private stand alone page not indexed, only findable with the link
It is page 1 of a two page communication. Page 2 is open to others as is not person-specific.
It may appear higgledy piggledy but quite deliberately for 3+ years I meander (off grid) partly chronicling UK via people encountered. As a result i have limited use of the laptop (due battery limitations) and in fact i prefer to handwrite. And almost all my written communication is extremely hastily compiled with no (battery) time spare to finesse or edit for now.
(I communicate like this - use a webpage rather than even email, for some years for efficiency so that if at some later date i may refer some other interested party to the same politicking points i make or i may add and edit)
an excerpt from the 'next' page, page 2 https://www.simonclayton2020.com/p/woman.html this page 1 is a private page, and page 2 is public (not person specific)
I think I can make one reasonably accurate statement (about all I really care about deep down) which is that from 2003 to about 2007 I was the male carer - father, who got far more media time than anyone else by far in the UK on the wholesomeness and joy and overall success in every way of single dad being 100% equal adequate and fine parent with child…
Letter written 10 March 2025
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the starting point is the audio on this page - page 2 the more 'public' 'working' page...
where i begin to attempt to write up various things on wo/man many i know are rarely said.
(then the chat recorded below on this page with Suzi a continual debater with me on society for 5 years - Suzi late 50s tough minded modern woman, though childless... )
I briefly refer specifically to one matter.
ref talk at Brain Bar https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V_EZLDhNFLI&ab_channel=BrainBar
14 minutes in
I myself I was the FREEest person in the world - i really was everyone i ever knew, knew... i had a unique existence...all my 20s a globetrotting (semi hedonist) traveller and almost adventurer...i personified total modern 'freedom' in so many ways.
MH “I am infinitely less free than I used to be but I am also a lot happier I wanted all this….”
(listen to my recording at the main page (ie page 2 of this) linked above and I say the same but even more avidly... infact my whole life only began when caring for infants became the centre of my life and i was also the unhappiest person in the world as the free person... kids - from then on ALWAYS happy )
I was revolutionary in being no one; from 25 years ago just a single parent happily living with his kid and at end of that recording I speak of how I would travel alone many times with v young child…. N Africa 2001 !! - jst after 9/11 me her buggy)
Your talk Brain Bar talk 14k views…I wish to live in a society where it has 140,000 by now
And I am sure you do too
Only in passing ...I like it how you rightly speak in terms of ‘woke’ being almost ‘over’ even if woke to me was always just a matter of over sensitivity
FAR more important – the one area I disagree with you (or your views expressed in the Triggernometry interview), living for many years as I have on the land – smallholdings, physical strength (and even as referred to in that discussion) “ disgust threshold” I am sorry are FAR FAR more ‘cultural’ than (pure science) would confirm as ones sees if one exists many years IN a ‘physical’ environment: (never mind women via weightlifter training for example) women who are in roles where they are using their strength day in and day out over decades DO in fact develop strength that is not far from men – automatically without any trying
(sorry I have been a farmer in my youth and looking at any body objectively is what farming is about
I have known women who own farms or smallholdings and over the years they do develop considerable bodily strength but that is for another day - i refer a little to this in general at pp2 of this)
ANYWAY THAT IS IRRELEVENT in the ‘real world’ in that above all as you say in your Triggernometry chat 32 minutes in on why marriage or long term exclusive partnership is ideal….
This has in fact become over the years to me the big elephant in the room.
“the first is the case for marriage … the ‘doomer’ case ….”
“staying together for the kids is good” i shall return to later (it has been my work)
Specifically and only for MH here are a few discussions recorded on these subjects the first is especially apt.
For years (efficiency) I record all talk - always, as I am only ever on the ‘job’ and points may need sharing (always attempting to find a collective of like minds)
The first recorded talk here is with a secure and 'powerful' friend who is very plugged in to the zeitgeist and often we speak of the messaging in society being problematic
Suzitalk 10 mar audio recording
filestore my google drive
gregtalk (the Mormon) 11th MArch 2025
audio in filestore
