Now....what is the honest truth about this society?
Myself as i say " i am European" but that doesn't mean some political stance or even 'romantic' embrace, it actually means that over the last 40 years of my life - from in fact the age of 18, i would spend at least 2/3 of my working life and more significant personal life, in Europe, and then also various other countries of the world. I only had to 'settle' in UK, exclusively, only when as of around 2003 due an 'opposing household' failing to keep to the extremely sane deal made before our child was born, that we would not bring her up in UK.
I do not refer to 'holidays' Europe i mean a range of places usually off the beaten track. As apart from anything else as of turning age 30 i decided i would always live in rural quietude once more similar to where i had raised myself (in the very wilds of N Wales). All cities or big towns are the same old nonsense, everywhere.
Anyway my funsite Ralphschism has endless audio essays on all sorts of reasoning rather brutal, why you should leave this dastardly little aisle... and as I am phenomenally literate in a non wanker-way meaning i just drifted into all the greats of literature organically - and meandered especially the 'small' books, e.g. Coetzee's Michael K (i think his best) not just his Nobel worthy, for nobody else but me.... Basically to occupy myself travelling the world for a (HUMBLE ) living, and i have always been entirely homeless in fact i don't really recognise the word 'home' or place... anyway one thing i know for sure is I am the nearly ultimate outsider looking in from the sidelines all my life I do pride myself on my objectivity. In respect of various cultures - who are people of any particular place, really, behind the tourist spin?
And one thing i know about Britain (see last post on transparency) is that in Europe we are almost UNIQUELY cruel in a sadistic way (in respect of our 'systems' be they how the law and other nutjob power crazed institutions act and how it affects the citizen) ; and also there is a denial of this among ordinary people, almost masochistically.
Also, objectively, we neither fight back, much, nor are ANY of our psychological/therapeutic systems and practices any good at all. They do NOT 'work' - i have informally but deeply for many years studied the philosophy of such science (and biology/zoology). Yet Britain simply cannot take in - way way higher rates of genuine mental health issues than any other European country, so as well as being almost equal to horrid bonkers USA in atomisation and the break down of the family - almost entirely caused by rampant materialism, we must be doing 'it' - the psychological repairs, wrong.
I've recently revved up into writing on, here.
https://www.ralphschism.com/p/mental-elf-roundup.html
In fact the whole damn thing from touchy-feely language, and the new tyranny of 'safe space' to every under 50 year old brainwashed into every other word being 'boundaries'; and then a whole spin operation around older lonely people (no family left due the UK family uniquely disastrous in Europe) brainwashed into feeling they are doing some 'good' volunteering for an hour down the local community centre when what they SHOULD be doing is lobbying politicians for less money being spent on destroying family, if by no other fact than disastrous ignorance and unprofessionalism IN so called professionals, and rather more on professional staffing who can then run such operations far far more efficiently. Years spent observing such services, when every week you have ten different so called 'helpers' at so called community services nobody EVER gets any help as the helpers have no idea how TO properly help folk...
Assisting people with difficulties in family or in respect of their interaction with the council or the like is pretty hard work and those in need of help need above all continuity - in who they may team up with so as to attempt to get their 'justice'.
Fact even the self obsessed self pitying land grabbing UK church of England had an in house network of offices staffed by longterm employed community facilitators - there to assist in legal battles against a council extorting you for council tax that you were not liable for, twenty years ago - more likely 30 (this related to me from the horses gob a lady bishop i know very very well) ... but no more, even she on early retirement " Jo why dont you lobby for or at least write articles about an even more desperate need for just such" in fact spends two years only texting me every other day her self pitying acedia...
The 'it' - above, being the cultural mores throughout all aspects of how we perform existing as human beings. Though in fact - though i decry wanky new age 'language' - most of which is baby words uttered by very very brittle (cored) people - and many are dangerous these days, i use one around children, only. We were supreme ferret champions. I know animals, animals respond to your 'vibration'. As do children. Simple as that.
And if you are at ease with children - almost living in them, as you would your own skin if the British were at ease in their own skins, too (most Europeans are FAR more so) that defines how the child will be the REST of their life...
or simply put, neurosis. If you're not properly zenned around kids you're a neurotic and that's definitely passed on down the line...NOT via genes but via learned adopted behaviour ... the vibe in the household generally does contaminate
And the older i get it astonishes me that so called 'experts' seem utterly unable to even manage a basic obvious psychological matter that is 100% sincere and true and of course tragic too...
in this letter below two lives are destroyed for 16 1/2 years...
But to have allowed also a daily real 'silver lining' or 'evolution via being in the 'desert' for years - for that destruction to have good eventual side effect / silver lining and not be able to say so for the SAKE OF THE OTHER.... which so few British seem to be able to understand as a truly great freeing evolution...means that in my opinion this land has gone backwards
And what really is their 'end times' - even those who consider themselves solid, evolved, deepened by tough times...
NOT ONCE in 15 years of meandering among many - mostly the middle class pious and relatively well off - i.e. they do have time to spare for others important even life-and-death needs, have i ever heard one person say (as i would DO for others and still do) " can i maybe figure how to help bridge your lass back in to you...we can at least give it a try"
Bit above all the absolute lack of simple philosophyif you tell someone that matters ultimately " well jolly hockey sticks... fifteen years of only bleak wasteland tragedy.....you the ONLY thing that ever has mattered to me ....however it hasn't killed, in fact it's only enhanced me....so tell your mum she's no quarter with me...nor in fact in no way my enemy"
you are simply setting them free.
8 August 13.23
DAD from private Woody email
To estelle
it is in attached letter as i dont have battery easier to write by hand
