Having studied - intelligently studied - 'scientific method' - which means (being expert in that) for god's sake do not take the word of any so called expert as the bible, but meander through all those, whom , for a long long time, have been recognised, properly, as the better new interpreters of the mind, eg Bentall https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/903284
And especially the rather good almost biblical Horizon program 8 or 9 years ago https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x5m331x where Bentall tries to intelligently mix it up a bit... but they still - the bossocracy that is, who these days sadly are even the local good burgher, demand of their children, exs, the lot: " she had mental illness, it is all genetic.." I heard tragically yet again in front of some children a supposed nice man telling us on a walk in the hills.... when we have in that Horizon, a largely believable expert, Singh, (but not that right) stating "genes account for 10% " where he should have actually stated "with such a minor POSSIBLE genetic component, we should forget that as it does NO ONE ANY GOOD, and is unfixable, when it is far more likely that fixable issues are the root of [being so frighteningly fruitloop - a brilliant program from the often lousy BBC]..."
And " the immigrant experience - not colour connected as whitey Greenlanders in Denmark have highest rates of almost ay people, of psychosis" to just simply / paraphrase. obviously applies to any 'immigrant' which can be a Britisher emigrating between classes, or fixed groups within a society - uk being one of the most obsessively tribal in the world - from rallying around racist ideals such as the BNP, blessem their ignorant crocheted little socks, , to rallying around crochet workshops...
However all these people are criminally negligent - the doctors and research scientists, as it has been known for centuries, get LOADS of quiet physical exercise, and LOADS of sunshine - especially at mid morning as it resets daily the diurnal 23 hr body clock within, and sleep deprivation almost always triggers real mental illness, and THE 100% guaranteed way to reset creeping sleep patterns is to be outdoors for an hour mid morning...no matter what the ferkin weather....
I understand as well as anyone can, psychology.
And yes you have to simplify it, to best bang for buck (the idea that so many an be fixed, when it costs an arm and a leg..per self harming arm - be that jabbed with drugs or meds, or self chopping up.....is simply Einsteinian madness ) THE number one aspect of a healthyish quiet mind for much of the rest of life, is decent attachments when young.... and a childhood relatively free from anguish within a home....and if there is anguish then a really good open LEARNING monologue is required over time - age appropriate as the bossocracy term it, when they dot know what that means - i am with Frank Abagnale in his simply superb talk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vsMydMDi3rI
" my world famous criminal career was largely triggered by age 16ish a social worker asked me to chose between parents...openly in the kitchen..it utterly freaked me...within a few years i was world famous criminal..."
And my own work - when i heard a supposedly famous, very very BBC approved - as her all day tweeting states so often, as she has perfect dusky looks, campaigning 'journalist' - SUPPOSEDLY campaigning for good mental health for children and families (against the court system) saying on BBC she almost demanded 8 year olds GO to courts with mammy and daddy to tell judgey what THEY the "voice of the child" want....is simply insanity
It is insane i considered that woman an ally of mine.... too...
I should be world famous example of the Einsteinian whatnot - as i knew 15 years ago that applied....and suckering up to a pretty face for... maybe other reasons...
completely against what my only main core values are - FIGURE the best psych environmet for a kid....study yourself...for years...as i have...cos most of the experts are so inadequate its daft...
but one has to try and get some allies...
Anyway ... i been busy.... there are very standard approaches - fixing takes years and of course has to arise within the person needing to fix themselves.... give up the drugs, start to understand in simple language the absolutely standard anguish in a family home from birth, then 10 years ignoring EVERY rule of don't be nasty about the other home... as seemingly no it can EVER follow - especially the most spiritually aware" to quote themselves....
AND..on the odd occasion when one may fail to keep to those absolutely crucial rules (in the Esi's Bill of rights) give a good human explanation to the child " we do crazy things when we are wounded" to quote Tom Waits maybe best song... or just a slightly less melodramatic version " we all...us humans...make mistakes... i confess to mine... i learned from it....and i will have made some small negative effect in your head my beloved littleun... but the most important thing of all is i acknowledge my mistake.... and try not to repeat it again... "
And for two weeks.... oh my what a standard case.... trying to just help a bit....but i give up...one needs allies... except i do hope there is a film made of this person - a truly useful standard example....
I only write as t is bulletproof excuse... the train wrecks take so so so much time and energy to try and deal with simplest basic matters oftheir head.... i havent had time to de-typo and write properly...anything....
I don't care about this identity.. as it is all a failure..(except Give it to the man in ay legal matter as example) but i do care about my rather good, penname writing n keeping life simple... as possible...so as to have had time to maybe do the societally important stuff...that is my own REAL story for 20 years as it happens...
I adore writing about - videoing.... especially when the only woman for years i value as a fine objective good mind, said i should (she not British...the clue is in the Birthplace...) stated it is in her therapy work, or to the real her, she knows it is a valuable skill....
