So, over a decade, ever since the Lowlanders really began to invade my fringelands - it's a free world ish and selling up mummy's Loreal shares, or the house bought on them in Surrey, if i had been one of them I too would have run away from Nigel's turbulent twenty sixteen towny places...
But they began to arrive in even larger numbers into the rural fringelands, and attempt to grift via so many new 'therapy' and 'counselling' grifts...
And the Swest is absolutely crammed full of every ex PR person set up in fringe places and every other PR word is 'community. Rather than the true version which is all big bowl of bloodied cherries.
Bugger me just when i need it my girls riding club the greatest community success in history i randomly started in autumn 2020 and there is a site with all the photos and really smiley stuff - we had best ever winter, for free riding horses with lasses and some mums, in the hills of East Wales
https://illicitgirlsridingclub.blogspot.com/
it's not working and needs some setting changed do come back... maybe i can fix it later today.
A pure unintended 'community' by a weird miracle i set up to keep some old horses going - being ridden 3 times a week as they were getting arthritic due being 20 something, which were off to ebay ...
But in that community (i ran with my farmers wife friend as protection) there were two women despite being very tough horsy women, both who had really quite bad substance abuse problems for years - one booze, the other god knows what was in her freezer as well as the 'peed' she would enjoy letting slip - age sixty nine and all her life in that very rural bungalow
Over time it was obvious that the one lost to the grape (the WORST of all substances) needed some informal guidance as to how to build bridges her near teen daughter and the other household, at war for years... no 'services' opertaing even if they only chuck petrol on the fire..
which is when REAL 'community' work is needed...
for months i attempted to brief up my right hand woman/ mum as to how standard turbulence within once calm families is fixed...
Everyone wishes to complicate it or just not listen.
Here is the BIBLE part 1 and 2 on at least attempting to bring some calm to the (child wars) situation and theyre all the same and in my opinion ONLY having a few inner circle local people involved, also..is the one solution that works a little better than parents slagging it out via serrated edged texts alone in their bedrooms all day and night....
audios 60 and 61 made 26 July afternoon, after a good nap in the bracken in the hills.
I like to ramble... for fun... part 1 begins rambling along on seemingly unconnected subjects merely to entertain...
but then gets to the meat of it
(which incidentally also if possible must have some mirth in it... laughing at ourselves, the pickles we get into)
click to google drive folder where they live for now
folder called COMMUNITY SOLUTIONS TO WARRING PARENTS
but also included are the basic RULES of how to save your kids from terrible angst as the parents are warring
https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1CQN8kTbIIIyx2dJVNr6Jg-wepgi1Z16J?usp=sharing
